How to Do Sexual Meditation
Sexual meditation is a way to heighten
awareness of the body to increase pleasure during sex. Regular sexual
meditation, may help to make sex more enjoyable for you and your partner and it
is also a way to deepen your connection. You can learn how to do sexual
meditation even if you have never meditated before.
Get comfortable. Get
into a position that is comfortable for you and your partner. You can either
lie down or sit up with your legs in the lotus position. You and your partner
can meditate while wearing something loose and comfortable or while not wearing
anything at all if you prefer.
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Keep your spine straight, whether you are sitting or lying down,
with your arms by your sides. Rest your arms loosely in your lap if you
meditate in a seated position.
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Keep your chin up and your head aligned with your spine if you
are seated
Close your eyes. When
you are ready, you and your partner can close your eyes and start the
meditation. Then, try to remain aware of your surroundings at first. Pay
attention to your body, your breath, and any sounds that you hear.
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Try to ignore intrusive thoughts and simply focus on the present
moment. If a thought pops into your head, acknowledge the thought and then let
it pass. For example, if you think of something that happened at work, then you
might think to yourself, “yes, that happened,” and then picture the thought
drifting away.
Focus on your space and breathing. As you meditate, focus on your space and breathing. Take deep, soothing breaths and pay attention to air entering and leaving your body. As you breathe in, pull the air down into your abdomen and imagine stress leaving your body as you exhale.
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Try to be aware of yourself and how you feel. Take stock of how
the air feels around your body, how all your different body parts feel from
your hands to your feet.
Visualize your body. As the meditation starts, visualize your own body.
Think about how your body looks inside and out as well as how your body's
energy looks. Think about the shapes, colors, and sounds of your current
feelings. For example, you might imagine the desire that you are feeling for
your partner looks like a red orb.
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Focus on your physical sensations. Try to be as aware
of your own body and the sensations you're feeling as possible. The goal of
sexual meditation is heightened awareness, which can lead to increased sexual
arousal.
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